Core Beliefs That Guide My Life

Throughout my life, five fundamental beliefs have directed my journey. These principles are what inspire me to wake up with enthusiasm each day. I encourage you to contemplate your own beliefs as well. What draws you to platforms like Medium? What topics ignite your passion? What is your purpose on this planet? What fills you with joy and motivates you to rise each morning? What core beliefs resonate deeply within you?

If you'd like to share, please feel free to comment or even write a story about it and tag me. Alternatively, jot them down in a journal for your personal reflection.

Let me share my guiding beliefs with you.

1. Everyone is entitled to an extraordinary life.

Regardless of who you are or your current situation (as I’ll elaborate in point #3), you have the right to an extraordinary life. The definition of "extraordinary" varies for each person, but for me, it signifies a life brimming with excitement and fulfillment.

Many people subconsciously believe they aren't deserving of such a life, but that notion is untrue. If you're reading this, you exist, and that alone confirms your worthiness.

You might be asking, “How can I find fulfillment?” There are two primary paths to discovering fulfillment:

• Pay attention to the signs life offers: These signs will guide you toward your life's purpose.
• Pursue what excites you: If something sparks joy, it’s a strong indicator that you should be pursuing it. Engage with your passions as often as possible.

I believe you’re on Medium because writing, creating, and expressing yourself excites you. This excitement is a significant clue!

Consider other activities that bring you happiness and engage in them as frequently as possible. This exploration is your pathway to fulfillment.

2. Our thoughts manifest into reality.

I learned this from the late Bob Proctor, who famously stated, “Thoughts become things. If you can envision it in your mind, you can grasp it in your hand.”

This belief is central to my life. When I truly desire something, I can achieve it. This ability isn't unique to me; it’s something we all possess. It requires:

• Clarity about your desires
• Focused visualization of what you want
• Taking inspired action when you feel compelled

Look around; everything you see originated as a thought. Creation always begins in the mind.

3. Freedom of time is as crucial as financial freedom.

While many people aspire for more wealth because it simplifies life, we must recognize that time freedom is equally important, if not more so. True freedom allows us to spend our limited time in ways that bring us joy and fulfillment (as mentioned in point #2).

We need the luxury of time to think, create, savor meals, and partake in life’s pleasures.

4. Circumstances are irrelevant.

I excel at obtaining what I desire, even when it seems unlikely. This is rooted in my belief that circumstances do not dictate outcomes, along with the conviction that things always work out in my favor.

I’m not claiming to be extraordinary; I’m sure you can recall instances in your own life when outcomes turned out positively, despite initial doubts. Life won’t always be perfect, but it’s crucial to recognize how things can work out for your benefit. Continuously gather evidence of favorable outcomes to strengthen this belief.

Remember, circumstances truly don’t matter. I often find that when I deeply desire something, it can materialize unexpectedly.

5. Life should be enjoyable.

While life can be challenging at times, the majority of it should be filled with fun. Why not strive to make the most of your time here?

For example, I had to mute a friend on social media due to her constant negativity. She perceives the world as a bleak place where everything goes wrong. If you dwell on negativity, that’s all you’ll notice.

In contrast, I prefer to focus on what brings me joy. I enjoy writing, taking daily walks, and reading a vast array of books. Even mundane tasks, like laundry, can become enjoyable by listening to podcasts or watching entertaining content.

There’s always a way to infuse fun into life. Personally, I believe we exist in a simulation, akin to a video game, so why not embrace the experience?

About the Author

Hi! I’m Christina, an introverted metalhead, a mom, and a wife. I’m also a Hustling Housewife, navigating the world of creating simple digital assets and sharing my learning journey through my newsletter at intellectualists.com.