Navigating Temptations in Long-Term Relationships
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I’ve been in a loving marriage for approximately 15 years and have four children. Overall, things have been positive; however, recently, there’s been a noticeable shift in my feelings.
While collaborating on a work project, I encountered a strikingly attractive colleague. There’s something intriguing about him that sets him apart, and our rapport has developed significantly.
I’m sure you can relate to this sense of connection, and it’s troubling. Despite my love for my husband, this temptation has become quite intense. My thoughts frequently drift toward this new person, and I sometimes envision what a relationship with him might entail.
He hasn’t made any moves, likely out of respect for my marriage, but I sense that if I were to show interest, he wouldn’t turn me down. This puts me in a challenging position, where the decision to act lies squarely with me.
It’s a complicated situation, and I’m aware that pursuing this could cause pain to others. Yet, I find it difficult to dismiss these feelings entirely. My main concern now is how to manage my emotions while continuing to work alongside my new attraction.
Seeking Guidance
Hello,
First, I want to applaud your openness in discussing such a sensitive issue. It’s clear that you have a deep affection for your husband, making this situation all the more distressing.
While it may appear that cheating is a simple solution, it often leads to unforeseen complications and a host of regrets. I genuinely hope you find the strength and clarity needed to navigate this challenging time and make decisions that honor both yourself and your marriage.
Love & Light 🌟
