Chapter 1: The Gift of Greenery

In my office, there’s a Pothos plant that was passed down to me from a former colleague who relocated for a new role as a City Manager in the Midwest. This pot contained lush green vines with heart-shaped leaves. Despite my lack of gardening skills, the plant thrived on simple care—just water and an occasional mist of fertilizer. After some exploration, I identified it as a Pothos!

As the weeks passed, I diligently watered it and watched the vines flourish. The plant exhibited two growth forms: long vines and shorter ones sprouting from the base. I never pruned it, allowing the runners to stretch to lengths exceeding 20 feet! Over the decade, it transformed into a tangle of soil, roots, and long runners, with leaves gradually vanishing.

Chapter 2: A Change is Coming

The tranquility of my office life was soon disrupted. I noticed new runners emerging from the center of the pot, sprouting fresh leaves in a previously bare area. This unexpected growth continued through the autumn months. Eventually, I learned that my office was relocating in December, and all my possessions, including my beloved plant, were set to move.

Each time I relocate this plant, I face losses; the runners break, become entangled, or simply fade away. This time was no exception. After the move, I lost several vines, yet the core of the plant remained resilient, continuing to thicken. How did it instinctively know to prepare for growth before the transition?

Chapter 3: Lessons from Nature

Just like my plant, our souls possess an inherent understanding of what they require to flourish. They initiate preparations, prompting feelings of unease or anxiety—signs that something significant is on the horizon. Those cherished aspects of our lives are preserved, while unnecessary relationships, situations, and even jobs may fade away.

Once the soul discovers its new environment, it establishes roots and begins to thrive anew. The losses faced during this transition pale in comparison to the new opportunities that await. You are destined to flourish, and while the process may involve some painful pruning, you will emerge stronger! Who knows? Perhaps this time, the vines will surpass their previous achievements, reaching heights you’ve always aspired to.

The first video titled "Moving On | Official Trailer | In Theaters March 17" delves into the theme of personal transformation and the courage it takes to embrace change.

The second video, "Leonard Cohen - Moving On (Official Video)," beautifully encapsulates the essence of moving forward in life, resonating deeply with the journey of growth and renewal.

Dedication

This reflection was inspired by Emma Holiday’s insightful article, "Gender Immigration," which touches on the nuances of personal journeys. I encourage you to explore her work!