Chapter 1: The Joy of Slowing Down

Living in haste is something I truly dislike. The frantic rush only leads to stress. I would much prefer to arrive early, allowing myself the luxury of reading or observing people as I wait, rather than scrambling to reach my destination at the last minute.

When I am in a hurry, my patience diminishes. While my work demands a fast pace, I cherish the opportunity to slow down at home. It’s in these moments that I can reflect on my life, find rest, and be present for those I love.

I consciously avoid overloading my schedule with activities. "Mothering" is something I approach with love and grace, and I treasure having free time to read and ponder while creating space for our daughter.

Being available for her, especially when she relies on me, brings me immense joy. Just recently, I picked her up from school when she was feeling under the weather, as her dad was occupied with work. Although she wasn’t directly in my care, I was still there for her, fulfilling my role as a mother.

I am in the process of simplifying my life by decluttering my surroundings. Fewer possessions lead to fewer distractions and less cleaning—ultimately giving me more time to experience love and joy.

Prioritizing what matters most is key. I strive to build a more constructive self rather than accumulating material things, and I focus on nurturing connections with my loved ones rather than with my belongings.

While I don’t own many possessions, the few I still keep often carry negative energy, anchoring me to past experiences. These items distract me from embracing new emotions and stories that I wish to cultivate today. Hence, I am gradually letting go of what no longer serves my future, including certain beliefs and traditions I once clung to.

New narratives are essential. I seek space for enriching stories that resonate with me and my family—stories that embody freedom, a relaxed pace, simplicity, love, continuous learning, self-improvement, and connection.

The more I commit to living intentionally and at a slower pace, the more content and fulfilled I become. This shift has made me bolder, boosting my self-confidence and reinforcing my self-respect. I find myself becoming more vibrant and secure in my choices. Living this way is truly a beautiful experience.

I would have never imagined such a life was possible if it weren't for the inspiring example set by a dear friend who lives authentically. Thank you for sharing your journey and inspiring me to stay true to myself.

The first video discusses how to slow down a fast writer, providing insights and techniques for a more deliberate writing pace.

Chapter 2: Embracing Simplicity

In my quest for a simpler life, I am learning to welcome love and embrace a new understanding of myself. Writing serves as a tool for this transformation, helping me step away from familiar patterns.

When I'm not immersed in writing, I enjoy reading, reflecting, or spending mornings bonding with my daughter. Sometimes, I find joy in playing with my cat, all while seeking the beauty in simplicity.

The second video offers an 8-step guide on how to pace your story and engage your readers more effectively, enhancing your narrative skills.