Chapter 1: The Dreaded Routine

Does this scenario resonate with you?

You wake up, probably closer to noon than you'd like to admit.

You pour yourself a cup of coffee.

It's the same brand you’ve been consuming for years, and you sip it from the same old mug — day after day.

Once you finish your coffee, you hop into the shower.

Warm water cascades over you, providing a brief moment of comfort.

But as they say, all good things must come to an end.

You abruptly switch the temperature to icy cold.

Wim Hof would definitely commend your bravery.

Once your shower is done, you dash out, wrapping yourself in a cozy towel that hasn’t seen a wash in over a week.

You don’t mind its odor.

Its soft texture dries you off and leaves you feeling great.

Next, you pick out your outfit.

A black t-shirt.

Black sweatpants.

Black socks.

White underwear.

You’re now equipped to tackle the day.

Settling onto your couch, you power up Dark Souls 3 and let the hours roll by.

Six hours vanish in an instant.

You glance at the clock, panic setting in.

Where did the time go?

The excitement from gaming is replaced by a crushing sense of dread.

“I’m squandering my life…”

“What am I even doing?”

“I didn’t even defeat any bosses today.”

Surveying your empty apartment, loneliness hits hard.

While video games can be entertaining, they don’t fill the void of true friendships.

You hesitate to go outside.

It’s late.

Plus, it’s chilly at this hour.

What’s the point of venturing out?

You reassure yourself, “I can always do it tomorrow.”

The catch? You’ve been telling yourself this for the past three months…

What I’ve described may not resonate with everyone.

After all, this is a Medium article, not a YouTube video.

Most readers here aren’t unemployed students feeling isolated.

While my depiction might seem exaggerated, it’s not too far from reality for many.

I spent a long period where my life felt dull.

And it wasn’t due to external circumstances.

It was because I was inactive.

Literally.

I spent my time smoking weed and gaming.

Occasionally, I’d visit the gym.

I’d force myself to stroll around my small town in an effort to stay fit.

But friends were scarce.

At my lowest, I had none.

Over time, I started forming connections, but my life remained a tedious cycle.

That chapter feels like a foggy memory.

Reflecting on those days, I’m amazed by how much has changed since.

And I’m convinced that if I managed to escape that rut, anyone can.

Here’s the truth:

The primary reason your life feels unfulfilling is quite straightforward:

You’re not taking enough action.

Let’s break it down. If you find yourself bored daily, lacking direction, devoid of friendships, and without goals, boredom is inevitable.

Where’s the thrill?

Where are the moments of growth and learning?

Engaging in the same mundane activities every day will lead to a dull existence.

It really is that simple.

Why do you think the Hero’s Journey captivates us so?

It’s not by chance.

People relish witnessing someone rise from adversity.

If life was perpetually easy, there’d be no joy in it.

It’s the challenges that shape your character.

Overcoming obstacles instills confidence to pursue more.

If you wish to be the protagonist in your own story, embarking on a journey is essential.

Is it tough?

Absolutely.

Is it uncomfortable?

Without a doubt.

But it’s necessary.

If you choose to continue living a dull life, do nothing.

Ultimately, the decision lies with you.

One thing is clear:

If you persist in inaction, nothing will improve.

So, how can you break free from this cycle?

It’s simple.

Engage in more experiences.

That’s all it takes.

The significance of the experience doesn’t matter.

You just need to accumulate them.

If you rarely leave home, start taking walks in your neighborhood.

If you’re in a city, explore local parks.

If you’re in the countryside, conquer a nearby hill.

This will establish a foundation for action.

Remaining indoors all day won’t get you anywhere.

Personally, I can’t stand being home during the day.

Having spent countless hours indoors, I feel almost allergic to it.

I get so incredibly bored that I have to go out.

From there, I discover what the world has to offer.

Here’s a quick list of activities to consider: dance classes, spin classes, cooking lessons, Spanish courses, and travel.

Anything that piques your curiosity — dive in.

For me, it was dancing.

For you, it might be something entirely different.

It doesn’t matter what you choose.

Our interests may differ.

Whatever they are, pursue them.

These experiences are crucial for your personal development.

Imagine the stories you’ll have five years down the line if you commit to this lifestyle.

Picture the new relationships you’ll forge through various activities.

Visualize the incredible friends you’ll meet.

None of this can happen if you isolate yourself indoors.

You must venture into the world.

You need to place yourself in situations that encourage growth.

Otherwise, boredom will be your companion until the end of your days.

And I doubt that’s your aspiration.

I hope this advice proves helpful.

Thank you for reading,

Godfrey

The first video titled "Why Your Life Is So Boring" explores common reasons behind feelings of monotony and how to combat them. It highlights the importance of taking action and making changes in your daily routine.

The second video titled "Why Your Life Is So Boring - 4 Habits To Find Fulfilment" discusses four key habits that can lead to a more fulfilling life, encouraging viewers to break free from their comfort zones and embrace new experiences.