Mastering the Art of Achieving Your Most Ambitious Goals
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Chapter 1: The Power of Perspective
Achieving what seems unattainable is often just a matter of viewpoint. For many, labeling something as "impossible" serves as a defense mechanism, making it easier to avoid the risk of failure. This doesn’t imply that you could defy the laws of physics—jumping off a seven-story building without safety gear will lead to disastrous outcomes.
Instead, I’m referring to dreams you perceive as unachievable that others realize as common. Consider Warren Buffett’s recent earning of $138 million in a single day, as reported by Forbes. You might dismiss that as unrealistic for yourself, and you're not alone in that sentiment. But if I were to ask you, “What needs to change for you to generate $138 million in one day?” ideas would start to flow.
This thought process is essential for progressing toward your perceived unattainable objectives. Regularly asking yourself, “What if it were possible?” will illuminate the steps necessary to bring your "impossible" aspirations closer to reality.
“In discussions with clients, I often emphasize the importance of setting grand goals. The more unattainable they seem, the better. However, it’s not merely about setting these lofty targets; action is crucial. You won't take steps toward your goal unless you genuinely believe it can be achieved.”
Section 1.1: The Dream of Generational Wealth
In a recent coaching session, a client expressed her desire to return to Africa to enhance its education system and create wealth for future generations. This was her way of saying, “I want to be incredibly wealthy.” When I inquired about the amount she thought she needed to reach this goal, her initial response was, “$1 billion!” After a laugh, she adjusted her answer to “Let’s say $100 million.”
While $100 million is indeed a significant aim, only 9,630 individuals out of around 331.9 million in the U.S. boast that level of wealth, according to The Ascent. I wasn’t about to criticize her ambition; it’s certainly a lofty target. However, there’s a truth to consider within her joking remarks. By dismissing the idea of being a billionaire, she inadvertently closed off her mind to the possibility.
When faced with the daunting question of how to become a billionaire, her mind began scanning for past experiences for guidance. Having never achieved that milestone, her brain decided it was out of reach, effectively shutting down any further consideration of it.
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Subsection 1.1.1: The Road to Ownership
My journey began when I got my first job as a professional footballer’s apprentice at age 15. Earning £320 a month was quite significant for someone with minimal expenses. I had a goal of owning a car by the time I turned 17, inspired by my brother teaching me to drive. The car I yearned for was a silver Peugeot 206.
As I focused on this goal, I started noticing the Peugeot 206 everywhere. Friends and family thought my obsession was excessive, but I realized I had tapped into something called controlled attention—seeing only what mattered to me.
I began researching the costs of owning a Peugeot 206, learning that I could save enough by setting aside a portion of my salary. By my 17th birthday, I had all the information I needed to make my dream a reality.
Section 1.2: What Lies Beyond Doubt
Returning to my client’s joke about being a billionaire, it’s possible that beneath the humor lies a genuine desire. However, by dismissing it as unattainable, she confined herself to a mindset that wouldn’t allow her to recognize opportunities, even if they were presented to her.
What I’m trying to convey is to aim high with your aspirations. If you question their feasibility, you’re on the right path. But don’t stop there! Daily affirmations of possibility—asking, “What if it were achievable?”—will encourage your brain to actively seek solutions.
Chapter 2: Take Action and Set Deadlines
The second key is to impose a strict deadline on your goals. For me, it was my 17th birthday. Establishing a timeline instills urgency, prompting you to focus and work diligently toward your objective.
Reflecting on my desire for the Peugeot 206, I realize I might have aimed for an even more ambitious dream, which could have pushed me to excel further in football.
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Final Thoughts
The notion of impossibility is subjective. What you view as unachievable may be commonplace for someone else. The key difference lies in how much energy you invest in pursuing it. Shift your mindset to, “This seems impossible, unless what?” Seek answers and take decisive actions. This is the art of transforming the unimaginable into reality.
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