A Life Defined by Three Essential Principles: Music and Meaning
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Chapter 1: The Core Principles of Life
In reflecting on the current state of affairs, I've been contemplating some fundamental truths. While I choose to steer clear of political discussions, I feel compelled to share my essential life principles that guide my actions and interactions.
These guiding values are:
- Honesty
- Kindness
- Unity
These principles not only shape my personal relationships but also influence the environments I choose to inhabit. They are the foundation upon which I build connections and foster my marriage. Are we flawless? Certainly not. Do we navigate challenges daily? Yes, but we work diligently to return to these core values whenever we stray.
Let’s delve into the first principle: Honesty. I believe it is the bedrock of all meaningful relationships. Without trust, any relationship becomes unproductive. Admittedly, I have made mistakes and told lies in the past. However, I have learned that the path back to trust involves acknowledging my errors. A mentor once advised me to confess any falsehoods immediately, which significantly enhanced my commitment to honesty.
Kindness is next on my list, a principle that resonates deeply with me. The age-old adage, "Do unto others," captures its essence perfectly. Life can be challenging, and adding negativity only exacerbates our struggles. I truly believe that the energy we emit into the world comes back to us. While unfortunate events can happen to anyone, I focus on what I can control: spreading positivity and kindness. This approach allows me to rest easy at night, knowing I am striving to uplift those around me.
Finally, let's discuss Unity. This principle has gained particular significance for me recently. As a musician and storyteller, I cherish the moments when people come together for a shared purpose, transcending their differences. There's something magical about live events that foster a sense of connection among strangers.
I recall witnessing legendary performances by Bruce Springsteen, Prince, and David Bowie—each creating unforgettable communal experiences. However, unity doesn’t imply we must always agree. Our diversity is a beautiful aspect of humanity. It simply means approaching disagreements with honesty and kindness. The most profound growth in my relationship with my wife has stemmed from our ability to navigate differences respectfully.
As I wrap up my thoughts, I'm eager to hear your perspective. What principles guide your life?
Ari Welkom, known on stage as Avatari, is an LA-based alt-rock singer and actor. A Harvard graduate, married father of two, and former college athlete, he practices martial arts and advocates for anti-bullying, equal rights, and unity on his journey of recovery. Follow him on Instagram or Twitter (X)!
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Chapter 2: Embracing Life's Principles
This section reflects on the profound impact of embracing honesty, kindness, and unity in our daily lives. By living these values, we can cultivate deeper connections and contribute positively to the world around us.