Chapter 1: The Value of Being Different

Many refer to the uniqueness of being weird as a form of superpower.

In my past, I exhibited even more eccentricity than I do now. I know that may seem hard to believe for some, but I genuinely allowed my individuality to shine. Unfortunately, this choice didn't serve me well during my state legislature campaign (which I thankfully lost). I was advised to remove my blog—back when LiveJournal was popular—to keep my oddities hidden from potential voters. However, I chose not to comply.

Feigning normalcy isn't my style.

In an article for The Atlantic titled "The Perks of Being a Weirdo," author Olga Khazan highlights how not conforming can foster greater creativity. She also discusses this topic in a conversation with Wisconsin Public Radio.

Denise Hill, writing for LifeHack, emphasizes, "Society often pushes us towards conformity. Being labeled as weird should not be seen as an insult; instead, it’s one of the highest praises you can receive. It signifies that you are unique, courageous, exceptional, and authentic. People who are considered weird think outside the box and engage with the world in their own unique ways—they celebrate their individuality. It takes bravery to diverge from the norm and forge a distinctive path."

Hill asserts that unconventional individuals are divergent thinkers, and that’s perfectly acceptable.

What often distinguishes you from societal expectations is precisely what can empower you. Embracing your uniqueness fosters self-acceptance, authenticity, and a genuine existence—free from pretense and falsehoods.

All of this is quite insightful.

This reflection has led me to ponder where my quirky, playful spirit has gone. While I still don’t fit the mold, I often blend in more than I used to. I find myself missing the whimsical version of me—the spontaneous me—the me who simply existed as herself.

So, I’m sharing this quirky video from a time when I was even more unconventional. I’m on a journey to reconnect with that version of myself, and I hope you’ll join me in embracing your own weirdness.

Chapter 2: Embracing Eccentricity